After 10yr of marriage and 3 kids the wife and I are getting a divorce. We plan 50/50 custidy and she will keep the house. Question I have, how do we figure out the mortgage? We owe 175k and it is worth 180k now, (bought at 228k :-( ), well that means we put 50k into the mortgage thus far and we're still live together, sharedbank account. Do I get fuct, and walk away from all that money we invested? Also she makes more than me, but wants child support, shouldn't she be paying me support? I'm at a lost, so many emotions.